There are days when you feel something being laid on your back. Blocks appearing out of nowhere, doors closing one after another, a weight you cannot explain. In livestreams I always tell you: if you feel you need to do unbindings or a black candle, do not say "I'll do it tomorrow". You sit down and work then.
The black candle is one of the practices I have used for years, constantly. Many of you asked me how exactly it is done, what you write on the paper, what oil you use, what you do with the white candle. That is how Black Candle Ritual appeared, a PDF book with the complete ritual and a very extensive list of things you can send back.
Below I tell you what you find in the book, who it is for, how you work with it and which livestreams prepare you.
Why the black candle
Black does not automatically mean something negative. In rituals, it symbolizes absorption, closure, letting go and the passage to a new stage. I say the black candle unplugs the sink so the water can flow: it takes out what has gathered so you can receive again.
And I use it together with the unbindings. For example, for unbindings with a person's name, those who feel they sit too heavily on the salt, I recommend lighting the black candle first and only then starting the phrases: it is easier to bear. I showed this step by step in the complete article about mother-in-law spells and their unbinding.
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What you find in the book
The book starts from the basic ritual, "I send back all the spells placed on me", and shows you how to adapt it to different areas of life. You receive:
- the complete guide of the ritual, with step-by-step instructions;
- the list of necessary materials: white paper, red pen, black candle, white candle and MUSC or Protection Blend oil;
- how the ritual is formulated, how the oil is used over the paper, the burning of the paper and the role of the white candle for protection, purification and light;
- variants of subjects you can work on;
- a very extensive list of examples of things that can be sent back: spells, black magic, blocks, obstructions, bonds, seals, attacks, manipulations, attacks on the chakras, negative energies, curses, incantations, influences and many more, from general forms to very specific variants;
- questions and answers about the ritual and the way of working.
What you can work on with the ritual
It is not a ritual "only for spells". You can do it on: the soul, the inner child, childhood and adolescence, self-love, confidence and self-esteem, femininity and sexuality, fears and emotions, traumas and repetitive patterns, self-sabotage, the relationship with the mother and the father, couple and family, money and abundance, career and projects, protection and personal energy, intuition and spiritual connection, limiting beliefs and programs inherited from the family line.
I burn it on different areas, not on the same subject endlessly. For love, for example, I said in the live: at least 30 days, on different aspects. The book gives you the examples so you build your own list.
How you work with it
- Read the basic ritual first and prepare the materials.
- Choose the area you want to work on today and build your list from the examples in the book.
- Write by hand. When you write, you push energy.
- Follow the steps in the book for the oil, the paper, the burning and the white candle.
- Return to the book every time you want to approach another subject.
Safety first: you work with fire. Place the candles on a stable surface, away from curtains and flammable materials, do not leave them unattended and keep children and animals at a distance. And if strong reactions that do not pass appear during the work, stop, drink water, rest and, if needed, ask a doctor for advice.
Who it is for
- for you, if you feel you carry blocks or influences that are not yours;
- if you already do unbindings on salt and want to support them with a ritual;
- if you want to have in one place everything you need for this practice;
- if you want to work on several themes, not only on spells.
The livestreams that prepare you
Spell unbindings
The phrase "I send back" is the heart of the ritual. In this livestream we speak it together, on salt, from the energy of strength: you give commands, you do not beg.
Energetic house cleansings
The black candle works very well in cleansing the house too. Here we work on the space you live in. You also find the techniques written in the article about the energetic cleansing of the house.
How a cleansing fire is made
If you want to go further, with the black wax bubbles for a shamanic fire, start with this livestream. The steps are also written in the article about the ritual with purifying fire.
The versions: with musk oil or with wax bubbles
The book alone costs €30. If you also want the oil, there is the bundle with the MUSC essential oil, the one I always work with, at €50. And for the shamanic fire there is the bundle with 3 black wax bubbles, at €40 (shop prices at the time of writing).
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Frequently asked questions
Does the black candle harm someone?
The ritual in the book sends back what was placed on you. If nobody did anything to you, nothing returns. You work on yourself, on your energy and on your life.
How often do I do the ritual?
As much as you feel. I have been doing black candles for years, on different themes. Cleansing is a way of being, not an episode.
How do I receive the book?
It is a digital book (PDF), which you receive on WhatsApp after your order. For questions, write to me on the contact page.
Send back what is not yours
Nobody can take your power unless you give it to them. Write your list, light the candle and take your life into your hands. A big hug, and I will see you live.
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The black candle: symbolic ritual and care for yourself
The black candle ritual can symbolically mark an intention of closure, release or protecting your boundaries. The meaning you give the ritual is personal; burning a candle does not prove the existence of spells and does not guarantee you a result.
The intention is more useful when it concerns your own choices
Instead of building a list of people you assume are harming you, formulate what you want to keep for yourself: discernment, boundaries, calm or a decision. The book brings together the ritual's instructions and formulations. Keep the usual safety rules too: a stable support, distance from flammable materials and permanent supervision. You can choose a flameless candle if the space or situation calls for it.
An exercise you can adapt
Write a short intention and an action supporting it. For example: I choose to respect my rest; I close work conversations at a set hour. You do not need to burn the paper to give the intention value.
Choose the right support for your theme
The Black Candle Ritual PDF offers you a written guide and thematic formulations. Check the product page to see exactly what the available bundle includes.
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Frequently asked question
Do I have to leave the candle burning to the end? Safety takes priority. Never leave a flame unattended.
Continue at your own pace
Choose a single theme you can look at today. A written support lets you return to it without searching for a new starting point each time. Explore the unbindings library and the meditation guide for other resources. Spiritual practices are forms of personal reflection; they do not replace the medical, psychological or legal help you need.