I kept postponing the father livestream, until a client wrote to me: "Cristina, when do you do the livestream with the father?". I did it, and the chat exploded. Then I understood how many of you carry years of patterns from the father's line without knowing whose they are. For you I wrote the book Complete Unbindings with the Father – Releasing the Paternal Blocks, in PDF format.
The father is in you. Half of you is the father. His role is to teach you that the world is not a dangerous place. When that was not received, you are left with fear, with hardships around money, with complicated relationships to authority, or with relationships in which you choose, again and again, the same type of person.
Below I tell you what you find in the book, who it is for, how you work with it and which livestreams prepare you.
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What you find in the father unbinding book
The book is a spiritual working material on the relationship with the father figure: trust, the relationship to authority, validation, safety and the relational patterns that come from there. It is made for exploring these themes through unbindings and personal reflection.
What you find in it:
- over 200 pages of unbindings;
- work on authority, validation and safety;
- exploring the wounds and tensions tied to the relationship with the father;
- formulas for spiritual work and introspection;
- the paternal patterns that can repeat in adult life: around money, at work, in the couple.
You receive it as a digital PDF, on WhatsApp, in Romanian or in 12 other languages (English, French, German, Italian, Spanish, Russian, Japanese, Arabic, Portuguese, Turkish, Hindi and Chinese).
Who the book is for
It is for you if you recognize yourself in what the relationship with the father leaves, as I have seen it in people in livestreams:
- fear: a fearful father teaches you fear;
- the inability to make money, especially if the father did not know how to make money or the mother was stronger than him;
- toxic masculinity: you attract men who act big but are insecure;
- the betrayal you carried for him, out of child loyalty;
- the criticisms, put-downs and comparisons that still echo in your head;
- the fear of addictions, if you saw that at home;
- pity for the father, which keeps you in the savior position and not in your place as the child.
I explained all of them at length in the complete article about the relationship with the father and the unbindings on the father's line.
If there was violence, alcohol or abuse at home, also work with a psychologist or psychotherapist. The book does not replace therapy, and if you are in danger now, call 112.
How you work with it
- Take it in pieces. You do not need to go through all 200 pages at once. Choose the section that most resembles your life.
- Sit on salt. A kilogram of coarse salt on the floor, barefoot on it.
- Let it flow. "Dear father, I give you back everything that is yours." Do not rattle off the phrases. On the salt you feel the energy flowing on the head, down the spine.
- Give thanks. "Dear energies, thank you. You helped me survive." You give it back with gratitude, not with anger.
- Receive. "Dear father, I receive everything good you have to give me." Power, strength, trust, love. He keeps the rest with him.
- Return. The larger the reactions, the more you have to work on the father's line. Return to those phrases in the following days.
The unbinding is not an accusation. The father has his wound too. You give him back what is his so you can take your place as the child, not to punish him.
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The livestreams that prepare you
Salt unbinding ritual for the father's energies
The complete ritual, as I did it live: the salt, the first phrase, the reactions, the thanking, the receiving and putting the parents back in their place. You can do it along with me.
Unbindings for the emotions generated by the parents' fights
The child integrates the fight between mother and father at cell level. In the live we go to the child who watched the fights, take his hand and lead him out of there.
Only the father, or mother and father together
- Complete Unbindings with the Father (PDF) – €30. Over 200 pages, only on the father's line.
- Complete Unbindings on Mother and Father (2 PDFs) – €40. The father book plus the mother book. If you feel you have work to do on both, it is the best-value option.
Frequently asked questions
My father has died. Can I work with the book?
Yes, and it is even easier. The soul contract remains after death too, and his energy is still in your field. You work with a living energy, not with a memory.
I never met my father. Does it make sense?
It does. Half of you is still him. You work with what you inherited, even if you have no memories with him.
I am a man. Is the book for me too?
Of course. Men without the father's energy lose their way. And women carry it inside them, and from there it manifests — in money, in career, in relationships.
Where do I ask if I have a problem with my order?
On the contact page.
Your successes honor him
You do not need to manifest like your father in order to save him or to feel connected with him. You can give him back the fear, the helplessness and the pain of his family line, and receive from him only the gifts. "Dear father, my successes honor you. I choose to honor you through a better life."
Sit on the salt, open the book and take it step by step. A big hug, and I will see you live.
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The relationship with the father: voice, worth and the freedom to choose
Working with the relationship with the father can start from what you live today: how you ask, how you respond to authority and how much space you give your own choices. You do not have to explain every difficulty through the past, and you do not have to force a closeness that is not safe for you.
When approval becomes the condition of a choice
If you catch yourself permanently checking the other person's state before saying what you want, stop and ask yourself what you need to communicate. You can have respect for a parent and different opinions. The book includes formulations on fear, alert, boundaries and reconnection with your own worth. Use them to name the experience, without taking responsibility for someone else's emotions.
An exercise you can adapt
Write down a choice you have kept postponing out of fear of disapproval. Note what information you need and which part belongs to you. Practice a calm formulation: I have listened to your perspective and I choose to take this step. Keep the necessary distance if the discussion becomes unsafe.
Choose the right support for your theme
Complete Unbindings with the Father brings together thematic phrases in a support you can return to. Choose the book if you want to follow this thread of reflection at your own pace.
See Complete Unbindings with the Father – Releasing the Paternal Blocks (PDF) and buy from the site. Read the product content and conditions before choosing.
Frequently asked question
Can I work with the theme if my father is no longer alive? Yes, as reflection on your own experience, without presuming a conversation or a verifiable spiritual result.
Continue at your own pace
Choose a single theme you can look at today. A written support lets you return to it without searching for a new starting point each time. Explore the unbindings library and the meditation guide for other resources. Spiritual practices are forms of personal reflection; they do not replace the medical, psychological or legal help you need.