“I send back all spells cast on my love.” I open every live stream about love with this phrase, and within seconds the chat fills up: some burp, others yawn until they cry, some have one eye watering involuntarily. I see the most workings — and the most programs inherited from the lineage — around love. I gathered everything I work on into a book with 256 pages of releases and activations for love, finished just before one of the live streams below.
If your relationships have not come together for a long time, if you love where you are not loved, or if you cannot leave a bond that consumes you, stay with me: I explain how to recognize a working on love, what energetic ties involving sexuality mean — we speak respectfully, but at length — and how to release yourself step by step.
What love spells are and why they are cast
A love spell is energetic manipulation: someone uses magic to bind you, separate you or take something that does not belong to them. We live in a reality where certain people have never awakened at the soul level and play with others' energy.
What I have seen in the field with clients takes every form: spells blocking marriage and love, theft of love, blinding spells, waiting spells keeping you “at the station”, spells changing destiny and relationships, and workings using all kinds of materials: beads, flowers, wormwood, sand, water, cemetery soil. There are even spells stealing beauty. Everything written in my release book I have seen in the field, with real people. These are not fabrications.
Why are they cast? Out of jealousy, possessiveness, fear that you will leave or be happy with someone else. But be clear about this: a spell does not bring love. The person casting it does not love you — they want to control you. True love needs no bindings; it gives itself freely.
How to recognize love enchantments: repeating patterns
Your life gives you the best assessment. Here is what I most often see:
Relationships that repeat. Each time, you choose a different person — and the story ends the same way. In releases, I say, “Dear parents, I give you back the pattern of your relationship.” Many of us unknowingly live our mother's or father's destiny out of unconscious loyalty.
Impossible loves. Blinding spells place veils: the person who was meant to see you no longer sees you, and you no longer see the right person.
Bonds you cannot leave. Through emotional dependence, people remain in relationships that deprive them of their soul's path. When we stay where we suffer, it is often loyalty to our parents and wounded parts within us. And some partners — especially those with a narcissistic structure — use withdrawal of closeness as a weapon of control. I call this energetic torture, and there is no reason to stay there. I wrote extensively about the signs of narcissism and toxic behaviors in a separate article.
Sudden changes in intimacy. If physical closeness is nothing like it used to be, although things were good before and there is no explanation, there is a possibility that it is a working on love.
Nothing comes together, however much you work on yourself. Personal development is in vain if you have spells. I have seen people with years of therapy for whom everything remains blocked — because nobody cleared the spell.
You lose the thread just as you begin cleansing. You begin a release and suddenly your attention wanders, you postpone it, forget. These are obstacles — sometimes even a form of spell.
The test remains simple: say the release phrase aloud and listen to your body. If you burp, yawn, sigh deeply, cry or feel something “struggling” within you — you have cleansing to do. If one eye begins watering on its own, the soul is crying. It is worth watching dreams too: what you dream when you have enchantments is the subject of a whole article I wrote.
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Energetic ties involving sexuality, explained respectfully
Energy is the most precious thing we have: it is divine grace — and that is precisely why it is stolen. Around sexuality, what I call energetic sexuality, I see in the field: energy “siphoned” through soul contracts, knots placed on intimate energy, especially in men, infinity-shaped ties taking you from one relationship to another. All are cut in the astral with the sword of light. Even marriage ceremonies, if performed with magical ties, are undone.
The basic phrase goes like this: “I cancel all soul contracts through which my sexual energy is siphoned away. I call all my energy back to me, across all times and spaces, lives and dimensions, and beyond them.”
A few things I want you to know:
- Sexuality and creativity sit together in the second chakra, the sacral chakra. When energy flows freely there, you are in flow: you create, attract, and money comes more easily. It is the same energy of life.
- Intimacy without protection is a complete energetic exchange, with everything each person brings from their past. Choose consciously what you unite with.
- You can work with this energy on your own. The first exercise from the tantric tradition that anyone can do is simple: generate this energy and move it with your mind through your whole body, letting it cleanse. You need nobody — and you are better off leaving fraudulent “professionals” alone.
- There is a moment when your energy is at maximum power: the peak of pleasure. I once discovered a working on my pleasure itself; I said, “I send back all spells cast on my pleasure” — and the next day things were different. No spell is stronger than your energy.
How it is released: the steps I use
1. First raise your vibration
Releases are done from as high a vibrational point as possible: sit centered, with your spine straight — lean against the wall and let every vertebra touch it. You cleanse yourself from the level you are at.
2. Say the phrases aloud and push the energy out
Do not merely say them mentally: the spoken word has creative power. A single phrase, worked deeply, deserves 15 minutes: let yourself feel where it sits in the body and take it out. My basic phrases:
- “I send back all spells cast on my love.”
- “I ask all my love to return to me, across all times and spaces, lives and dimensions, and beyond them.”
- “I cancel all soul contracts through which my love is taken.”
- “I cut all ties and undo all knots placed on my love and relationships.”
- “I cancel all thefts of love and call back all my love.”
- “I program my field to no longer accept such things.”
3. Salt and the black candle
Put coarse salt under your feet and stand on it while saying the phrases, with a little musk essential oil. And burn the black candle, inscribed by hand — because when you write on it, you push energy — for different aspects of love, for at least 30 days. I make at least four a week for myself. It unclogs the sink so the water can flow.
4. Essential oils
Musk cleanses the chakras. For the heart chakra, rose, Love Mix and lilac work — anything floral. They help you if you open up; if you have decided in your head that you do not want love, nothing helps. You can also use the oils in a diffuser — you can find my blend recipes here.
5. The sword of light
With your eyes closed, bring out the sword of light and cut the ties and knots. The lump in the throat is unspoken words. And on many people's spines I have seen a black thread — that too is cut in the astral.
6. Close with activation
In a release, the movement is always in two steps: remove everything old, then spin all the chakras and rise in vibration. I listen to 528 Hz music and say, “I activate the vibration of love at the highest level I can activate now. I am love.”
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How to attract healthy love after cleansing
After what comes from outside leaves, the beautiful part begins: aligning yourself, within, with the vibration of love. My book has precisely this structure: releases, dissolving limiting programs and activations.
First dissolve the old programs: that love must be earned through sacrifice and suffering, that emotional intensity is love (it is not — anxiety and jealousy are not love), that you cannot have love and freedom simultaneously. It is not falling in love, but rising in love. And dissolve the program of an intimate relationship “out of duty”: that is self-betrayal.
Watch the fear of peace too. Someone who had a difficult childhood fears calm and healthy love — and unknowingly seeks toxic love. The phrase for this: “Dear parents, I give you back the reflex of interpreting calm as a lack of love.”
Then remember: we do not manifest love because we do not love ourselves. True love springs from within. The partner you need emanates from you. Call on the ancestors who knew how to have healthy relationships. And repeat to yourself at the cellular level: “I am enough. God accepts me, so I can accept myself too.”
An evening exercise in bed: let yourself love yourself. Feel where love flows in your body and where you have knots — I sometimes see them as wire — and melt them until you become flow. Change begins with acceptance. The sign that you are aligned with the vibration of love? You hear birds; the cuckoo sings all day.
And if you have just left a relationship and cannot detach emotionally, I have seven practical exercises for that here.
Prevention: how to protect yourself in future
- Activate your limits: “With love, I activate all my healthy boundaries in love.” You do not let anyone violate your boundaries or spoil your vibration.
- Be careful whom you turn to. Few people work with light. Many “helpers” add things instead of removing them. I do not even recommend egg cleansings — I have seen what they leave behind.
- Daily energetic hygiene: a white candle in the home, aura cleansing with fire and water. Cleansing is a way of being, not a single episode.
- Work on your chakra column and third eye, so you no longer play blind man's buff in your life.
- Be authentic. Success — and love — are proportional to authenticity.
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Do the release with me, live
Stand on salt, light a black candle and say the phrases with me, at your own pace. Your body knows more than your mind.
For another round of phrases, also watch the second live stream with releases for love and sexuality.
Frequently asked questions about releases for love
Do love spells exist?
Yes. Everything written in my release book I have seen in the field with clients: from blocking marriage to theft of love, blinding and ties on intimate energy. These are not fabrications — they are real energetic manipulations that can also be released.
How do I know whether I have spells or just programs?
Say the phrase and listen to your body. Cleansing symptoms — burping, yawning, sighing, tears, cold or heat — tell you there is something to remove. If no symptom appears even with programs, it does not mean you have nothing; it means you are closed off in the mind. We all have programs.
Can I say the phrases for my children too?
Yes. I say the releases “for myself and my children” — that is how I give them in the book too. Children's field is closely connected to yours, and your work as a mother protects them too.
Do I need a partner to work on energetic sexuality?
No. You do the exercise of generating and cleansing with your own energy by yourself. It can be done as a pair, but only if you are both cleansed, at the same level. Better alone and in clean energy than just any way.
Is it a sin to work with intimate energy?
No. The programs teaching us that sexuality is incompatible with spirituality are precisely programs to dissolve: one does not prevent the other. It is the creative energy of life, given to you by God, and it is yours.
How long does a release for love take?
At least 30 days, on different aspects — and honestly, cleansing is a way of being, not a single episode. I have been making black candles for myself consistently for years.
The right partner emanates from you. Stop looking outside: love yourself, cleanse yourself and let them come. Have a good day; sending you all a kiss, and I look forward to seeing you at the next live stream.
