When people ask me about the law of attraction, I tell them something simple: you are already using it, every day, with every thought and action. The question is not whether you manifest. The question is what you manifest.
I have often repeated this in live broadcasts: we cleanse ourselves, release what binds us and remove old programmes—but that is not enough. After cleansing, we also need to programme reality positively, because that is what being creators means. The brain is like a computer: if you do not programme it yourself, someone else does—with fears, news and words heard in childhood.
I do not teach the theory of the law of attraction. I show you exactly what I do, day by day, to programme my field: the phrases I speak, the images I work with and the small choices from which manifestation is built.
What it means to programme reality positively
For me, programming reality means two things, in this order: cleansing, then programming. First remove what is not yours—then tell your field what you want it to be. Spells and heavy programmes attach to a psyche they can latch onto; in a clean field there is nothing to grasp, and as you become light, your gifts begin to emerge.
The programming itself is very simple. You do it with spoken words, because words have creative power, and with the intention behind them:
“I programme my field to be only love and joy. My free will belongs to me and me alone, and I allow no one to affect it. I am the master of my own life. My will be done.”
And one more thing, so it is very clear: you create with your thoughts. Not as a figure of speech, but literally. Repeating words as though they were magic is not enough—you need to catch that vibration and live it too. When you truly believe it and live it, that is how it really is.
Your vibrational vote: what you pay attention to and say yes to
I say that every day you cast a vibrational vote, whether you want to or not. You vote for what you give attention to. What you say yes to, you receive more of. If you sit waiting for someone to save you—your mother, your father, anyone—you send the energy of waiting into the field. And the field answers: you receive more waiting. That is why I vote for myself through action: I act rather than sit.
A person is their own cause. You set the rhythm for everything that happens to you; no one outside you sets it. And look at your life today: what you have today is what you did six months ago—there is no point looking for someone to blame anymore. When you rise into higher vibrations, manifestation speeds up visibly: from one week to the next, sometimes even from one day to the next.
Here is the balance: between asking and doing your part too. Laziness is a sin, you know, but working frantically is not okay either. Ask the universe for ideas, people and opportunities on your soul's higher path, then take action. Life is a field of love, but through trauma we contract, put on armour and block ourselves. Open your energy field and receive.
What a daily programming practice looks like
1. The phrases I say aloud
Do not just say them in your head. Speak them and, above all, put psychic energy behind them—that is what matters most. If you do not feel what you are saying, do not lie to yourself; work until you feel it. Here are my basic phrases:
- “I programme my energy field to be only love, and everything that is not love to leave my field.”
- “I programme every attack on me to turn into light and serve my good, my family's good and the good of all beings who recognise the light.”
- “I activate all the codes of joy within me. I activate all the codes of happiness and love within me.”—if that is our nature, it is normal to activate them.
- “I activate my self-confidence to the highest level that can be activated now.”
- “I allow myself to do what I have never done before.”
- “I live in the moment. Everything is here and now.”
- “I ask the universe to send me ideas, energies, people and opportunities on my soul's higher path.”
You can also do these on salt if you have done the cleansing work there: salt accelerates the field, and the phrases go in more powerfully.
2. The images I work with
- Your future self. This is the law of manifestation in practice: close your eyes, see the person you are in the future—already fulfilled—and draw that energy towards you until you feel like dancing. Then, to reach that version of yourself, you need to become that person.
- A shower of jasmine. When I want to open my heart, I pour a shower of jasmine into my field: jasmine and rose open the heart. You can also do it physically, in a diffuser—in the article about essential oil blends for a diffuser you will find ready-to-use recipes.
- The sun. Take at least one minute a day and shine like the sun. The sun shines for good people and bad people alike—it does not care; that is its job. Be like that too, without ego: simply shine.
- A Merkaba over the house. I imagine the Star of David—a Merkaba—and spin it over the house and over myself: it is the vehicle of light that raises you in consciousness.
3. The small choices in your day
- Ten minutes with yourself. You do not need a yogi's posture—I programme even while doing household chores. What matters is giving yourself time.
- People who cut off your joy. Criticism, gossip, envy, jokes that actually hurt—let them be your compass. You are not obliged to stay around those people.
- Cook with positive thoughts. Your energy goes into the food—a salad made by two different people tastes different because we actually feed on love. I have a gratitude label on my fridge and deprogramme any negatively charged food.
- Follow your own wishes. Doing things for yourself is a way of not betraying yourself. When you do not do things for yourself, you betray yourself, and your inner child takes the hit. Choose yourself: eat what you like, go for walks, live your life.
- Do what frightens you. That is how I have overcome fears throughout my life: you do the things, and afterwards you are no longer afraid. The accompanying phrase is: “I dissolve all my fears in love.”
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Mistakes that sabotage your manifestation
- “Poor me.” Every “poor me” comes at a cost: at that moment, you are not in your power. You programme an abundant, happy life when you are not in fear or self-pity.
- Waiting for a saviour. No one is coming to save you. No one is coming to solve your financial problems either. You are the creator—but you cannot initiate anything while trapped in trauma programmes.
- You feed the illusion of lack. “I have no money” is an enormous illusion—and by believing it, we feed it. I work like this: “I transform all my programmes of lack and all my poverty karma through alchemy into abundance.” And abundance rests on gratitude: you are grateful for what you have, choose yourself and bring beauty to what you do. If you want support on this topic, I have gathered everything in the abundance collection.
- Insistence and control. If you see it is not working and you have tried every way, let it go for a while—perhaps something else is needed. And remember the parable of the pancakes: God gave you flour, milk, sugar, a pan, heat and butter, but you keep demanding pancakes exactly as you know them. The soul knows the higher path. Control deprives you of life—if you are not in flow, you cannot receive.
- Judgement and comparison. When you judge, you do not receive the gift—it is a form of self-sabotage. And be careful with “I want to become better”: when you say “better”, you implicitly say that now you are less. You are good as you are; you simply remove the programmes that make you believe you are not enough. “I am”—and that is all.
- Life “later”. “Later I will change, later I will live, later I will enjoy myself.” This programme held us back for years. Everything is here and now. And another alongside it: an identity tied only to “I do”. Losing a job tears you in two. Anchor your identity in your soul, in “I am”, not just in what you do.
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God's role in my manifestation
Here I speak openly, as I do in the live broadcasts: there is no happy life without God. We carry His spark within us, so ignoring Him is like denying your own nature. Any personal development pursued to its end leads to God.
Anxiety and the fears of the night—give them to Him. No one outside you can give you that complete “I love you” you are looking for: not even your parents could. Only God can give it to you fully—and you can give it to yourself. And the order in my life is clear: God, me, my children and everyone else.
My short programming prayers:
- “Lord, please remove from my path the people who are not on my soul's higher path.”—it really works; I tell you from experience.
- “Your will be done, Lord”—and because free will is yours: “My will be done.”
You do not manifest from a dirty field: cleansing and forgiveness
I repeat the principle from the beginning: first I cleanse, then I programme. You cannot pour clean water into a dirty glass. Do your cleansing on salt—the ritual is on my channel and accelerates the whole field—and remove old programmes with these phrases:
- “I dissolve self-hatred in love and transform it through alchemy into true love.”
- “Dear mother, dear father, I return all the heavy programmes to you. As a child, I wanted to save you and took them upon myself—but I do not need to hate myself to save you.”
- “Dear ancestors, I receive all your gifts and leave everything heavy with you. You are the elders; I am the new life.”
- “I break all soul contracts, across all times and spaces, that are no longer useful on my soul's higher path.”
Forgiveness is part of cleansing, not an extra. Draw your energy back from old relationships—if you want new relationships, cleanse yourself energetically of past ones. The prayer for forgiveness and release I wrote can help, and all the release materials are in the release rituals collection. After cleansing, get your chakras moving—the guide to blocked chakras helps here—and only then move on to programming. When you remove old programmes and begin to become light, your gifts emerge: you see more clearly, feel more clearly and manifest more quickly.
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Programme your reality together with me
Stand on salt or sit comfortably, close your eyes and repeat the phrases with me in the live broadcast below:
I have two more live broadcasts on this subject if you want to keep working: the positive programming live broadcast and the positive programming of reality live broadcast.
Frequently asked questions about the law of attraction
What is positive programming of reality, briefly?
Cleansing followed by programming. Remove old programmes, then say aloud what you want in your field: love, joy, abundance. The brain is like a computer—if you do not programme it with your intention, other people's fears and words programme it.
How long does it take to manifest?
Your life today is the result of your decisions six months ago. When you rise into higher vibrations, the time shortens: from one week to the next, sometimes from one day to the next. And know that the universe tests you before giving to you—do not give up just then.
Does the law of attraction conflict with faith in God?
For me, not at all—it is one and the same life. There is no happy life without God, and any personal development pursued to its end brings you to Him.
Can I programme if I have spells or many old programmes?
First I cleanse. Spells attach to a psyche they can latch onto, and you cannot manifest cleanly from a dirty field. Work on salt with the release phrases, then move on to positive programming.
What do I do if I feel nothing when I say the phrases?
What matters is the psychic energy behind them, not empty words. If you do not feel it, do not lie to yourself—write the phrase on paper, work on salt, repeat daily until you feel it in your body. It is a process, not a magic wand.
Is choosing myself selfish?
No. If you do not give to yourself, you receive from no one. And when you give to yourself, you give to others from an overflowing place—that is love. If you give from an empty place, you only starve yourself.
Choose yourself today. Programme your field with love and joy, even for one minute, like the sun—and let the world meet your vibration. Sending you a kiss, and I look forward to seeing you at the next live broadcast.