{"product_id":"atasamentul-haotic","title":"Chaotic Attachment – Unbindings for the Fear of and Longing for Closeness, Emotional Confusion and Unstable Relationships","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDo you long for love with all your heart, yet at the same time it frightens you?\u003c\/strong\u003e You get close to someone with your whole heart, and then you feel the need to run. You go from \"I can't live without you\" to \"leave me alone\" in the same day. Your relationships feel like a back-and-forth between attraction and fear, between trust and suspicion.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis is the pattern of \u003cstrong\u003echaotic (disorganised) attachment\u003c\/strong\u003e. It appears when the same relationship in childhood was experienced at once as a source of protection and of danger. It is not a flaw of character, but the memory of a bond in which love and fear wore the same face.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003e\"I can want closeness without losing myself, and I can feel fear without destroying the bond.\"\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eDo you recognise yourself?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou want closeness, but when you receive it you feel in danger or overwhelmed.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou swing between clinging to your partner and pushing them away.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou idealise your partner, and at the first disappointment you see them as a threat.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou test love, anticipate abandonment or leave first so as not to be left.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou freeze in conflicts, disconnect or react far more intensely than the situation calls for.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou are drawn to unavailable people, while stable ones seem to have \"no chemistry\".\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYou only feel alive in intensity, and calm seems suspicious to you.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat the book contains\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eThe complete guide to the salt unbinding\u003c\/strong\u003e – what you need, how it is done, what reactions may appear and how long the process lasts (a minimum of 30 consecutive days).\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eOver 70 phrases for dissolving programs\u003c\/strong\u003e, each alchemised into its positive opposite: the association between love and danger, the conflict between closeness and running away, submitting in order to be loved, toxic shame, loyalty to the family's chaos, the trauma bond, the attraction to intensity and much more.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eOver 70 activations\u003c\/strong\u003e that strengthen the new inner position: safety, discernment, relational coherence, a stable identity, tolerance for peace.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003e30 chapters, in 5 parts\u003c\/strong\u003e: The Root of Disorganisation, The Contradictory Inner System, Chaos in Adult Relationships, The Body That Carries the Chaos, Repetition and Identity.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEach chapter explains \u003cstrong\u003ewhat is happening\u003c\/strong\u003e and \u003cstrong\u003ehow it shows up in adult life\u003c\/strong\u003e, and offers a \u003cstrong\u003epractical exercise\u003c\/strong\u003e and \u003cstrong\u003ereflection questions\u003c\/strong\u003e.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWho it is for\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFor anyone who feels that love comes bundled with fear and wants to move from closeness-and-flight to relational safety: calm relationships in which closeness no longer hurts.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eThis material is for reflection and personal work and does not replace psychotherapy, medical assessment or emergency intervention.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eFormat: digital book (PDF), downloadable after purchase.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Adevar si Lecuire","offers":[{"title":"Default","offer_id":55113084207441,"sku":"PDF-ATASAMENTUL-HAOTIC-DEZLEGARI-PENTRU","price":7.0,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0995\/0475\/0929\/files\/atasamentulhaoticadevarsilecuire_56354c76-1612-49f5-9bb7-ce3043091cdf.png?v=1790635103","url":"https:\/\/adevarsilecuire.ro\/en\/products\/chaotic-attachment-unbindings-for-the-fear-of-and-longing-for-closeness-emotional-confusion-and-unstable-relationships","provider":"Adevar si Lecuire","version":"1.0","type":"link"}